By Rosa Kemirembe, Founder and Facilitator at Teaching for Success
What would you like to see happen to strengthen your collaboration with your child’s teacher so that your child can thrive in school? Take a moment to think about that. Is it better communication? More opportunities to share your ideas? Or maybe just feeling more confident to approach your child’s teacher without fear or hesitation? Whatever it is, this blog is for you. We’ll explore practical strategies to build positive, collaborative relationships between parents and teachers, and how this partnership can directly impact your child’s success.
Research shows that when parents and teachers work together, students perform better academically, have better attendance, and develop stronger social skills. But collaboration isn’t just about teachers telling parents what to do. It’s about sharing ideas, listening to each other, and working as a team to support the child. In many communities, including here in Uganda, there’s a belief that the teacher is always right, and parents may feel hesitant to speak up or share their concerns. But let me tell you this: your voice matters. You know your child better than anyone else, and your insights are valuable.
So, how can you, as a parent, build a strong, positive relationship with your child’s teacher? Start with a positive attitude. When you meet your child’s teacher, begin the conversation on a positive note. For example, instead of saying, “My child is struggling in math, what are you doing about it?” try, “I’ve noticed my child is having some challenges in math. How can we work together to support them?” This approach shows that you’re not blaming the teacher but are eager to collaborate.
Share information about your child. Teachers don’t always know what’s happening at home. If your child is going through a difficult time—maybe a family issue or health challenge—let the teacher know. For example, if your child has been unusually quiet in class, it could be because they’re dealing with something at home. Sharing this information helps the teacher understand and support your child better.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions or share your ideas. For instance, if your child loves storytelling, you could suggest to the teacher how this interest could be used to improve their reading or writing skills. Remember, collaboration is a two-way street. Make an effort to attend parent-teacher meetings, school events, or even volunteer when possible. This shows the teacher that you’re invested in your child’s education and builds trust.
Now, let’s talk to the teachers. Parents are your partners, not just observers. When a parent comes to you with a concern, listen without being defensive. Remember, they’re not attacking you—they’re advocating for their child. For example, if a parent says their child is being bullied, take the time to investigate and address the issue together.
Create an environment where parents feel comfortable approaching you. A simple smile, a warm greeting, or even a regular update about their child’s progress can go a long way. Avoid abusive behavior. Shouting at, humiliating, or physically punishing students is never acceptable. Not only does it damage the child’s self-esteem, but it also erodes trust between you and the parents. Instead, focus on positive discipline and problem-solving.
During meetings, ask parents for their input. For example, you could say, “What strategies have worked for you at home that we could try in the classroom?” This makes parents feel valued and respected. Conflict is natural, but how we handle it matters. If there’s an issue—whether it’s about grades, behavior, or something else—approach it with a problem-solving mindset. For example, if your child fails a test, instead of blaming the teacher, ask, “What can we do to help my child improve?” Similarly, teachers, if a parent raises a concern, avoid being defensive. Instead, say, “Let’s work together to find a solution.”
At Teaching for Success, our goal is to build bridges between parents and teachers so that our children can cross the rivers of education successfully into their future. We believe that when parents and teachers work together, students are unstoppable. So, let’s commit to strengthening these partnerships. Let’s communicate openly, share ideas, and support each other for the sake of our children.
Together, we can help our children succeed. Let’s keep building those bridges!
About the author:
Rosa Kemirembe is a dedicated educator and advocate with a passion for fostering collaboration between parents and teachers. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in bridging gaps and empowering communities to support children’s education. Through Teaching for Success, Rosa aims to create inclusive, supportive environments where every child can thrive, driven by strong partnerships between schools and families.
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