From Bestie To Bonkmate! Chosen Becky Reveals Tactics Her Photographer Used To Win Her Heart

By Our Reporter

From heartbreak to head over heels, singer Chosen Becky has traded tears for tiaras and sorrow for sparkles, thanks to an unexpected love story that has taken social media by storm.

Uganda’s sweetheart of the Bankuza fame is officially off the market—and the lucky man isn’t just a lover, he’s the photographer who turned her pain into poetry, and heartbreak into healing. His name? Abdul Khadir Ssekajja—a quiet, soft-spoken counsellor with a psychology degree, a heart of gold, and now, Becky’s ring on his finger.

The romantic whirlwind began in the aftermath of Becky’s messy, very public split from her children’s father, Chef Amir—also known as Dictator Amir. But just as headlines splashed her pain, one man was quietly picking up the shattered pieces behind the scenes.

“He saw me when I was broken, when even I had forgotten what I was worth,” Becky confessed in an emotional press interview. “He didn’t come to me with promises—he came with peace.”

Ssekajja—who Becky first knew as her photographer—didn’t just capture her beauty through his lens; he captured her heart. In a move straight out of a romance novel, the media-shy Ssekajja reportedly enrolled in videography and photography classes just to be closer to Becky. But it wasn’t just the clicks of a camera that won her over—it was the quiet, unseen acts of love that followed.

“Every Sunday, even before I knew what he looked like in person, a bag of rice, sugar, and chicken would arrive at my doorstep,” Becky shared, her voice cracking. “At a time when I didn’t even have what to feed my children, he was there—silently, steadily, lovingly.”

The soulful singer went on to describe how Ssekajja’s background in psychology helped guide her through some of her darkest moments. “I had lost myself. But he gave me back my self-esteem. He reminded me that I am a queen.”

The grand proposal, captured in dazzling images now making rounds online, was the icing on the cake. Fans are raving, celebrities are applauding, and social media is melting.

“He didn’t just propose—he promised me peace, security, and laughter. He made everything that was stressing me seem light,” she said, clutching her diamond ring.

And this fairy tale doesn’t end here.

Chosen Becky says she’s ready for forever with the man who helped her find herself when she had forgotten who she was.

“He is not just my lover. He is my safe space. My second chance. My answered prayer.”

From pain to passion, from counselling sessions to candlelit dinners—Uganda’s newest power couple has reminded the world that sometimes, love doesn’t come riding on a white horse… it comes carrying chicken and sugar bags on Sundays.